“Well, you seem to have read every word of this contract” said the other party’s lawyer. Of course I had – that’s what I was being paid for! That said, I was well aware that my client’s bargaining power was very weak and that my mumerous objections to their ling-winded, very one-sided contract may well be rejected.
So, how do you proceed in such a situation? How do you negotiate a contract (or someone else’s terms and conditions) without power?
Well, in this particular case, we agreed to meet the other party and their lawyer for a round-table discussion. I then began by explaining that I was a collaborative negotiator – I was not ‘playing games’, I simply wanted to achieve a contract which was fair and reasonable and reflected what BOTH parties actually intended. After this, we went though all the proposed changes one by one, and the other party’s lawyer had to agree that they were, indeed, reasonable.
We didn’t get ALL the changes we asked for, but in most cases the other party’s original contractual position could not be defended. Accordingly, the changes were agreed and we achieved the ideal solution - a win:win situation leading to long-term trust and a reduced likelihood of disputes.
Unfortunately, this happily ever after scenario doesn’t always happen. Sometimes, the other party adopts a ‘take it or leave it’ approach. So what do you do then?
The first question always has to be ‘Do you NEED to deal with these people?’ and if you don’t the second question is ‘Do you really want to work with a Bully?’ If you have adopted a collaborative approach, have honestly tried to look for a solution which protects both parties’ interests and this approach has been rejected, does that bode well for your future working relationship? I fear not.
The only issue here is that it is not always the other party that is causing the problem. So, to all those who love drafting unnecessarily complex, ‘one-upmanship’ contracts, I would say ‘Give reasonableness a try – because if your clients are looking to secure a long-term relationship with the other party, they won’t be too happy if that party walks away because you made them look like a Bully!’
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